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The Mentor Question That Gets You a Yes
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The Mentor Question That Gets You a Yes

The Mentor Question That Gets You a Yes You typed it three times before you sent it. "Would you be willing to mentor me?" Then you watched it sit there, read, unanswered, for eleven days. The ghosting had almost nothing to do with you. It had everything to do with what that one sentence asks a stranger to sign. The word "mentor" is an open contract with no end date Something surprising sits underneath the average unanswered ask. Francis Flynn and Vanessa Lake's 2008 research in the Journal of...

How to Learn a New Job in Three Weeks

How to Learn a New Job in Three Weeks Week one of a new job comes with a quiet instinct: keep your head down, absorb everything, speak once you understand the place. Follow that instinct and you will still be the slowest person in the room in month four. The people who get up to speed fast do something that feels reckless at the start. Compute the coefficients of the arc tangent series by Thursday Grace Hopper reported to the Bureau of Ordnance Computation Project at Harvard on July 2, 1944....

Say Out Loud What You're About to Drop

Say Out Loud What You're About to Drop Five things landed on you this week, and you said yes to all five. Here is how it ends: three get done well, one gets done late, and one quietly disappears while you hope nobody remembers asking for it. The dropping already happened back at the moment you said yes to everything. The only thing still undecided is whether anybody else heard you decide it. The experiment where people picked the worse task on purpose Meng Zhu, Yang Yang, and Christopher Hsee...

Delegate It Badly Before You Delegate It Well

Delegate It Badly Before You Delegate It Well Somewhere in every early career, being the reliable one turns into a trap. You catch the errors, you rewrite the deck at 11pm, and people start routing things through you because you always deliver. Then you look at your week and realize nothing moves unless you touch it. The habit that got you noticed has quietly become the ceiling you are stuck under, and the reason has nothing to do with how well you explain a task. The general who watched four...

The Office Politics Nobody Warned You About

The Office Politics Nobody Warned You About On your first day at the office, you have probably thought, "I am going to keep my head down, do excellent work, and let the results speak." Clean plan. It also quietly assumes that the people making decisions about your future can see your work, understand it, and remember it when it counts. Three assumptions, and all three are usually wrong. Here is what is actually happening in the rooms you are not in. The $29,004 that Ursula Burns thought was...

How to say 'I Don't Know' and Gain Respects

How to Say "I Don't Know" and Gain Respects Someone asks you a question in a meeting. You have no idea. In the half-second before you speak, your brain offers you a deal: fake a confident answer now, deal with the consequences never. Take that deal often enough, and you build a reputation that looks solid from a distance and collapses the moment anyone leans on it. There is a better trade available, and the research behind it is stranger than you would expect. A hospital study that proved the...

How to Deliver Bad News Before Someone Else Does

How to Deliver Bad News Before Someone Else Does School prepares us to become a great employee but doesn’t really teach us this skill. You will rarely get punished for the bad news itself. You get punished for the gap between the moment you knew and the moment your boss found out. Fill that gap with silence and you look evasive. Close it fast, and the same news makes you look like someone worth trusting with bigger problems. Seven days, 31 million bottles, and one decision On September 29,...

How to Lead People Who Used to Be Your Equals

How to Lead People Who Used to Be Your Equals The promotion email lands, and it feels like winning. Then Monday arrives, and the people who used to complain to you about management are now waiting for YOU to become the management. Nobody hands you a script for that. The awkward stretch that follows is where a lot of promising careers quietly stall, and it usually stalls for one specific reason. Julie Zhuo was 25 and asked to convince her friends In 2009, Julie Zhuo was three years into...

Learn to Always Follow-Through

Learn to Always Follow Through On April 24, 1916, Ernest Shackleton pushed a 22-foot lifeboat off the beach at Elephant Island and left 22 men standing on the rock behind him. His ship had already been crushed by ice. The men had two upturned boats for shelter and seal blubber for fuel. He told them he would return. It took four attempts. A whaling boat turned back at the ice in May. A Uruguayan trawler turned back in June. A chartered schooner turned back in July. On the fourth try, in a...

Run A Meeting People don't hate

Run a Meeting People Don't Hate On June 9, 2004, Jeff Bezos emailed Amazon's senior leaders and banned PowerPoint. The replacement was stranger than the ban itself. Executives now walk into a room, pick up a six-page memo written in full sentences, and read it in total silence for about half an hour before anyone speaks. Bezos has called it the weirdest meeting culture anywhere and also the smartest thing Amazon ever did. His reasoning was blunt. Bullet points let a presenter skate over the...